No more naughty films for Brits?

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 07-22-2013, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

Sex education in my school was fucking shocking to be fair and I can't imagine it being much better now, Primary school was quite good considering, but secondary school (11-16) we had two single lessons in the 3 years I was there. They covered the very basics of getting pregnant (the man sticks his D in the V) and how to put a condom on. That was it. Had so many questions I didn't know the answer to as well.

Kids will find porn regardless though (me and my mates would find magazines in bushes, steal from shops, nick videos off friend's dads etc so there were plenty of ways to get it before the internet took off) it's just now they've got so much of it a couple of seconds away it's ridiculous.

How do people suggest teaching kids to use the internet responsibly? I think it's completely unworkable.

Right? I learned from the internet and Cosmo

which is awful for a young "girl", not to mention most sex ed defines sex as PIV only (penis in vagina) and doesn't include queer people at all.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-22-2013, 10:48 AM

im not sure how you could even teach ppl to use the internet responsibly. i dunno what that even means since its probably different to everyone. sex ed is pretty basic but besides teachin about stds, pregnancy, condoms, the basics of sex, what else could you really teach?? do we want teachers goin nto great detail about how to deepthroat or how to have rough sex or how to manage a threesome or how to pick up honeys. hmmmm not sure about that but probably not

The Batlord · 07-22-2013, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by 216

im not sure how you could even teach ppl to use the internet responsibly. i dunno what that even means since its probably different to everyone. sex ed is pretty basic but besides teachin about stds, pregnancy, condoms, the basics of sex, what else could you really teach?? do we want teachers goin nto great detail about how to deepthroat or how to have rough sex or how to manage a threesome or how to pick up honeys. hmmmm not sure about that but probably not

Well my teacher was kinda, sorta hot, so hell yes!

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-22-2013, 10:53 AM

mine was like 7 foot with a clef lip. she told us about her latex allergy i remember and mental images of her gettin the pipe mad eme feel weird. then i remember when she talked about rubbers she brought in the world largest ***** and everyone probably felt real insecure afterwards

THANKS A LOT MRS HARVEY!!!!!

~~Cuthbert~~ · 07-22-2013, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by 216

im not sure how you could even teach ppl to use the internet responsibly.

IMO if an adult wants to use the internet responsibly, they will. Whereas teenagers/kids will just indulge in it all day long if you let them. Same with drugs, they're constantly told how bad they are and told 'don't use them', yet most of them still will at some point.

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i dunno what that even means since its probably different to everyone. sex ed is pretty basic but besides teachin about stds, pregnancy, condoms, the basics of sex, what else could you really teach?? do we want teachers goin nto great detail about how to deepthroat or how to have rough sex or how to manage a threesome or how to pick up honeys. hmmmm not sure about that but probably not

IMO they need to be allowed to ask questions, whatever they may be. You can argue it's the parent's job to answer them but the reality is a lot of them aren't gonna want to ask their parents about something like that. Let them write them down on paper anonymously in class and have the teacher answer them or something, doesn't matter what they're about.

Newkie · 07-22-2013, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

I think it would be more effective to teach them about sexuality early instead of it being about the internet, they'll be able to make the judgment about porn early on rather than just stumbling on it and being confused/intrigued and then feeling shameful for having a natural curiosity about sex.

This, though I'm not sure what the best method would be.

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Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

IMO they need to be allowed to ask questions, whatever they may be. You can argue it's the parent's job to answer them but the reality is a lot of them aren't gonna want to ask their parents about something like that. Let them write them down on paper anonymously in class and have the teacher answer them or something, doesn't matter what they're about.

To be fair though, that's not really going to work. I mean it wouldn't have worked in our school and kids are becoming chopsier bastards as the years go on, they wouldn't get a single serious answer.

I dunno, I think the whole notion of this is complete ****e anyway and it's taking responsibility away from parents. It's not going to stop kids watching porn, some will have it unblocked in their homes anyway, others will find ways round it. I mean you could probably just google "ways round new porn law" immediately after it was enacted and sort it out. Maybe they'll sort it out by having sex at younger ages?

It all just smacks of conservative posturing by our number one bell end.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 07-22-2013, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Newkie

To be fair though, that's not really going to work. I mean it wouldn't have worked in our school and kids are becoming chopsier bastards as the years go on, they wouldn't get a single serious answer.

Yeah they'd try and wum the teachers no doubt, but if they kept getting serious answers they'd soon get bored of it. That was just an idea anyway, the point is sex education is fucking shit in this country and needs sorting.

Also, lol'd at 'naughty films' in thread title.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 07-22-2013, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Newkie

This, though I'm not sure what the best method would be.

To be fair though, that's not really going to work. I mean it wouldn't have worked in our school and kids are becoming chopsier bastards as the years go on, they wouldn't get a single serious answer.

I dunno, I think the whole notion of this is complete ****e anyway and it's taking responsibility away from parents. It's not going to stop kids watching porn, some will have it unblocked in their homes anyway, others will find ways round it. I mean you could probably just google "ways round new porn law" immediately after it was enacted and sort it out. Maybe they'll sort it out by having sex at younger ages?

It all just smacks of conservative posturing by our number one bell end.

Since I'm a sex worker & queer I pretty much think of sexuality like shitting (lmao) and eating, I would probably just tell my children all the basics and especially stress that sexuality is not shameful and curiosity is natural and as long as they engage in consensual practices what they do with their genitalia is their business and it's wrong for anyone to tell them otherwise. I would ESPECIALLY stress no matter what gender they were, that love and sex don't equal each other and you don't have to love someone to **** them but it's important to treat someone you have sex with with respect.

But if I were weird, I'd probably give them Scarleteen | Sex Education For The Real World & Go Ask Alice! if I wanted to not be embarrassed because these two places literally cover everything pretty much on the spectrum of human sexuality (including LGBTQ+ issues) and then they could just use that as a resource because it's really useful.

But if they had any questions, I'd answer them truthfully without trying to push too much.

Making this about porn is weird and skeevy

Newkie · 07-22-2013, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

Yeah they'd try and wum the teachers no doubt, but if they kept getting serious answers they'd soon get bored of it. That was just an idea anyway, the point is sex education is fucking shit in this country and needs sorting.

Yeah, definitely.

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Since I'm a sex worker & queer I pretty much think of sexuality like shitting (lmao) and eating, I would probably just tell my children all the basics and especially stress that sexuality is not shameful and curiosity is natural and as long as they engage in consensual practices what they do with their genitalia is their business and it's wrong for anyone to tell them otherwise. I would ESPECIALLY stress no matter what gender they were, that love and sex don't equal each other and you don't have to love someone to **** them but it's important to treat someone you have sex with with respect.

Yeah for sure. I'm sure "the internet generation" will be more liberal with this sort of stuff on the whole, kinda have to be. But it's not really something I'd thought about to be honest.

Dayvan Cowboy · 07-22-2013, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Right? I learned from the internet and Cosmo

which is awful for a young "girl", not to mention most sex ed defines sex as PIV only (penis in vagina) and doesn't include queer people at all.

my sex ed teacher actually talked about gender identity and how to be safe when having gay sex! and then the conservative parents found out and called it a gay agenda! I didn't think that **** happened in canada.

also I agree that parents should teach their children about sex. I have a friend who knew about sex since she was 3 and knew all about it. that being said, she was actually pretty mature when it came to sex and she never went through the "hurr hurr pen0rs" phase.

(also I read an isssue of cosmo at the doctor's office, and it was talking about MANipulation and had like, 20 pages about "What men actually think of you". oh, cosmo, you secretly misogynistic heap of scrap paper!)

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~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	im not sure how you could even teach ppl to use the internet responsibly. i dunno what that even means since its probably different to everyone. sex ed is pretty basic but besides teachin about stds, pregnancy, condoms, the basics of sex, what else could you really teach?? do we want teachers goin nto great detail about how to deepthroat or how to have rough sex or how to manage a threesome or how to pick up honeys. hmmmm not sure about that but probably not

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~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	mine was like 7 foot with a clef lip. she told us about her latex allergy i remember and mental images of her gettin the pipe mad eme feel weird. then i remember when she talked about rubbers she brought in the world largest ***** and everyone probably felt real insecure afterwards THANKS A LOT MRS HARVEY!!!!!