love at first sight is it possible, your thoughts?? (title, quote)

~~Sabgoat~~ · 01-16-2006, 12:49 AM

just as the title says.. is it possible

tell me your thoughts, and every detail you think of this true love..

i will post my future thoughts in the future!

thank you, and no fighting..

Crazy Luv · 01-16-2006, 12:58 AM

I think there can be lust/interest at first sight of course, but not love. Love has to grow, cant just be there like magic. Love isnt too earlier nor too late, if that makes sense.

But! if you are talking in the sense of a mother seeing her child seconds after its born, then yes...love at first sight.

MURDER JUNKIE · 01-16-2006, 01:05 AM

I believe that you can be infatuated at first sight however loving a person takes time. When my wife and I were dating we had a great time together and each had our own residence, when we moved in together it really changed the relationship. We nearly killed each other the first few months because we lived so differently, I leave things laying about so that I can find them when I need them again and she needs everything to have a place. It is overcoming challenges like these that leads to love

Adium · 01-16-2006, 03:07 AM

I agree wth the previous two statements..., Lust or infatuatement at first sight.., not love...,

either/or · 01-16-2006, 03:42 AM

love is bull**** and i hate it.

LukeM_UK · 01-16-2006, 04:23 AM

Yes, it is. I've experienced it quite a lot. I don't know about FIRST sight, but you can get to love someone (sort of) just by watching the way that they are with other people, and speaking to them face to face for the first time. And if you happen to fancy them - that's a bonus!!

TrampInaTux · 01-16-2006, 04:35 AM

Love at first sight doesn't exist. It is impossible. You need to at least speak to someone before you can love them. And even then you are a bit stupid to love someone you have only spoke to once. Like Crazy Luv said, Lust at first sight is possible-you can find someone attractive. But apart from that, if you say that you loved someone at first sight, you are either hugely desperate or deluded.

LukeM_UK · 01-16-2006, 04:39 AM

Okay, it's lust then. It just turns into love later on.

TrampInaTux · 01-16-2006, 04:42 AM

Exactly. Case closed!

~~Sabgoat~~ · 01-16-2006, 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hobojesus

Love at first sight doesn't exist. It is impossible. You need to at least speak to someone before you can love them. And even then you are a bit stupid to love someone you have only spoke to once. Like Crazy Luv said, Lust at first sight is possible-you can find someone attractive. But apart from that, if you say that you loved someone at first sight, you are either hugely desperate or deluded.

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what if your already talking to the person, and then later in time see them. but the feelings are already growing before you see the person, and the looks the attraction just finish's the job?

01-16-2006, 12:49 AM	#1 (permalink)
~~Sabgoat~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 303	love at first sight is it possible, your thoughts?? just as the title says.. is it possible tell me your thoughts, and every detail you think of this true love.. i will post my future thoughts in the future! thank you, and no fighting..

01-16-2006, 03:07 AM	#4 (permalink)
Adium Groupie Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 3	I agree wth the previous two statements..., Lust or infatuatement at first sight.., not love..., __________________ http://www.razornylon.com/

01-16-2006, 03:42 AM	#5 (permalink)
either/or Don't think twice Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: A basement on the hill Posts: 352	love is bull**** and i hate it. __________________ Painstaking devotion and love Surrendered to self preservation From others who care for themselves A blindness that touches perfection But hurts just like anything else Isolation, isolation, isolation

01-16-2006, 12:58 AM	#2 (permalink)
Crazy Luv a l'amou fou pou tout Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: NY Posts: 355	I think there can be lust/interest at first sight of course, but not love. Love has to grow, cant just be there like magic. Love isnt too earlier nor too late, if that makes sense. But! if you are talking in the sense of a mother seeing her child seconds after its born, then yes...love at first sight.

01-16-2006, 01:05 AM	#3 (permalink)
MURDER JUNKIE The Wetter The Better!! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: SH1TTY London Ontario Canada Posts: 2,504	I believe that you can be infatuated at first sight however loving a person takes time. When my wife and I were dating we had a great time together and each had our own residence, when we moved in together it really changed the relationship. We nearly killed each other the first few months because we lived so differently, I leave things laying about so that I can find them when I need them again and she needs everything to have a place. It is overcoming challenges like these that leads to love

01-16-2006, 04:23 AM	#6 (permalink)
LukeM_UK Music Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 191	Yes, it is. I've experienced it quite a lot. I don't know about FIRST sight, but you can get to love someone (sort of) just by watching the way that they are with other people, and speaking to them face to face for the first time. And if you happen to fancy them - that's a bonus!!

01-16-2006, 04:35 AM	#7 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	Love at first sight doesn't exist. It is impossible. You need to at least speak to someone before you can love them. And even then you are a bit stupid to love someone you have only spoke to once. Like Crazy Luv said, Lust at first sight is possible-you can find someone attractive. But apart from that, if you say that you loved someone at first sight, you are either hugely desperate or deluded.

01-16-2006, 04:39 AM	#8 (permalink)
LukeM_UK Music Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 191	Okay, it's lust then. It just turns into love later on.

01-16-2006, 04:42 AM	#9 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	Exactly. Case closed!