i need some advice. (rock, quote, Hang)

jibber · 03-13-2004, 06:40 PM

i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out

MobilizeTerror · 03-13-2004, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by JackJeckel

break up with him and move to canada and go out with me *wiggles pelvis

Yo man, back off! I saw her first!

Thrice · 03-13-2004, 08:55 PM

Hope it works out.

winterslastbreath · 03-13-2004, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by jibber

i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out

he doesn't realize he does it until after he does it. it's like he doesn't even think about what's going to come out of his mouth. typical guy right?

but i agree... i hate reassuring myself.. it's exactly how you said it-i give him no reason to not trust me. that just gets me 10x more frustrated.
i guess you could call it a problem, but it's not like it happens every day or anything. just sometimes it gets really bad and i feel like ripping my hair out. lol
thanks though, talking will probably help a bit.

Thrice · 03-13-2004, 10:44 PM

Relationship
Trust
Trusttrust
Trusttrusttrust
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Rockafella Skank · 03-13-2004, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Thrice

Relationship
Trust
Trusttrust
Trusttrusttrust
Trusttrusttrusttrust

You forgot trust.

Thrice · 03-13-2004, 10:51 PM

ha ha...

i meant

relationships are built upon trust

winterslastbreath · 03-13-2004, 10:58 PM

trust maybe?????

the part that even frustrates me more is that i trust him with my heart.. i could trust him with everything. then he questions me when i hang with one of my guy friends. teenage love, sometimes i ask what the use.

Thrice · 03-13-2004, 11:05 PM

Thanks for all the advice coming my way Nikki

BTW...Awesome Signature I love that by Brand New!!

Rockafella Skank · 03-13-2004, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by winterslastbreath

teenage love, sometimes i ask what the use.

Yeah, I came to the same question myself and I decided that unless it's serious (and I mean really serious) love then it's not worth it at that young of an age. I'll be turning 20 in less than a month and I've only had one serious girlfriend.

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03-13-2004, 06:40 PM
jibber Freeskier Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Canuckistan Posts: 1,358	i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out __________________ What you've done becomes the judge of what you're going to do -- especially in other people's minds. When you're traveling, you are what you are right there and then. People don't have your past to hold against you. No yesterdays on the road. William Least Heat Moon, Blue Highways Your toughest competitor lives in your head. Some days his name is fear, or pain, or gravity. Stomp his ass. HOOKED ON THE WHITE POWDER

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winterslastbreath Deja Entendu Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Jersey Posts: 92	trust maybe????? the part that even frustrates me more is that i trust him with my heart.. i could trust him with everything. then he questions me when i hang with one of my guy friends. teenage love, sometimes i ask what the use. __________________ if looks could really kill then my profession would be staring

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