bend the fend

Think of it as an initiation.

People want to know what your temperament is like.

If they have a joke with you are you going to take it in good humour or are you going to cry about it like a baby?

It happens to everybody, not just you.
It's just Banter .. which is why the site is called musicBANTER.

I have no hatred or issues towards you.

If you are talking about what I posted in the Clash thread that was aimed at a bunch of people who were posting stuff that has been deleted since then.

It wasn't aimed at you.

Im good. How did you find this website?

Hey.....how are you?

welcome to ma page