not a question about music!!

penelly · 10-04-2004, 12:37 AM

Hi everyone!!

I have a question, I guess it is more the moral side of it....

(I am a 17-year old girl.)

Last friday I went to a party, got pretty wasted, and ended up making out with a guy I hardly knew.... Later that night I had sex with him..... We were both kinda drunk....

My question is : Am I a slut for sleeping with him?[COLOR=DarkRed] And if so, what about him??[/color]

penelly · 10-04-2004, 12:38 AM

oops.... color error....

dog · 10-04-2004, 07:19 AM

nah ur not a slut, your were drunk. i guess ur only a slut if u do that really often. but um u can like, not get really drunk at parties if u don want that to happen again.

Kali · 10-04-2004, 11:35 AM

Damn girl. No good. Did he pay you?

(just kidding)

David Frost · 10-04-2004, 02:21 PM

thats what happens when you get drunk.

its really up to you and your morals whether or not you think you are a slut.

some prostitues consider themselves clean, but on the other had the fact that you are even thinking that you may be might be your answer right there.

franscar · 10-04-2004, 02:36 PM

If a guy did it he'd be called a stud, if a girl does it they get called a slut.

Hey, if you enjoyed yourself and nobody got hurt, then it's all good. Right?

Although I hope you crazy kids kept it safe. Safe is good.

jibber · 10-04-2004, 04:07 PM

^ damnit I hate that whole mentality, the guy is a hero and the girl's a whore. in my opinion, you and the guy are both equally responsible for it, but you really have to answer your question yourself. If you see something wrong with it, then there is something wrong with it. If you're ok with what happened, then it's all good. and david frost made a really good point. if you have to ask that question, I'm wondering if you already know what you think about it....

franscar · 10-04-2004, 05:40 PM

Depends on the context though, entirely. I've got to admit that all my former girlfriends have been more sexually experienced than me when we've hooked up. To me that's never been a problem, but I'm guessing the original poster hasn't had too much previous experience, apologies if that isn't the case.

Personally, if I've ever had drunken sex with a stranger (not often, but it has happened) then I always make sure that the girl involved knows that it wasn't just a case of treating her like a piece of meat for my pleasure. Are you planning on seeing this guy again or was it just a one-off meeting? Either way, I don't think being a 17 year old girl getting drunk and having sex makes you a slut.

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10-04-2004, 12:37 AM
penelly Music Addict Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: between the same four walls.. Posts: 47	not a question about music!! Hi everyone!! I have a question, I guess it is more the moral side of it.... (I am a 17-year old girl.) Last friday I went to a party, got pretty wasted, and ended up making out with a guy I hardly knew.... Later that night I had sex with him..... We were both kinda drunk.... My question is : Am I a slut for sleeping with him?[COLOR=DarkRed] And if so, what about him??[/color] __________________ In nomine Patris Et Filii Et Spiritus Sancti

10-04-2004, 12:38 AM
penelly Music Addict Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: between the same four walls.. Posts: 47	oops.... color error.... __________________ In nomine Patris Et Filii Et Spiritus Sancti

10-04-2004, 07:19 AM
dog this bird has flown Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: paris,texas Posts: 849	nah ur not a slut, your were drunk. i guess ur only a slut if u do that really often. but um u can like, not get really drunk at parties if u don want that to happen again.

10-04-2004, 11:35 AM
Kali Music Addict Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: California Posts: 73	Damn girl. No good. Did he pay you? (just kidding)

10-04-2004, 02:36 PM
franscar Honky Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Birmingham Posts: 685	If a guy did it he'd be called a stud, if a girl does it they get called a slut. Hey, if you enjoyed yourself and nobody got hurt, then it's all good. Right? Although I hope you crazy kids kept it safe. Safe is good.

10-04-2004, 04:07 PM
jibber Freeskier Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Canuckistan Posts: 1,324	^ damnit I hate that whole mentality, the guy is a hero and the girl's a whore. in my opinion, you and the guy are both equally responsible for it, but you really have to answer your question yourself. If you see something wrong with it, then there is something wrong with it. If you're ok with what happened, then it's all good. and david frost made a really good point. if you have to ask that question, I'm wondering if you already know what you think about it.... __________________ What you've done becomes the judge of what you're going to do -- especially in other people's minds. When you're traveling, you are what you are right there and then. People don't have your past to hold against you. No yesterdays on the road. William Least Heat Moon, Blue Highways Your toughest competitor lives in your head. Some days his name is fear, or pain, or gravity. Stomp his ass. HOOKED ON THE WHITE POWDER

10-04-2004, 05:40 PM
franscar Honky Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Birmingham Posts: 685	Depends on the context though, entirely. I've got to admit that all my former girlfriends have been more sexually experienced than me when we've hooked up. To me that's never been a problem, but I'm guessing the original poster hasn't had too much previous experience, apologies if that isn't the case. Personally, if I've ever had drunken sex with a stranger (not often, but it has happened) then I always make sure that the girl involved knows that it wasn't just a case of treating her like a piece of meat for my pleasure. Are you planning on seeing this guy again or was it just a one-off meeting? Either way, I don't think being a 17 year old girl getting drunk and having sex makes you a slut.