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Originally Posted by VEGANGELICA
“Won” by Erica
telling me to tell you everything,
yet when I do you start to fling
caustic comments viciously.
You treat me so dismissively
knowing right where to strike,
you tear down what I most like
about myself, then when I vent
you blame me for resentment.
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I'm not a great analyst so my feedback will be pretty feeble, but you have some really great lines there that typify the experience of being involved with someone with personality or even just serious mood disorders. I know that's how I felt a lot of the time when I was in that situation.
Always a problem when you yourself suffer from common issues like self esteem and anxiety, discussing it with them seems so trivial so you avoid it. When you confide in them and everything's going well it's not so bad, you know they've dealt with worse and they can still help you, even if they can't exactly help themselves. But as soon it turns sour they can really seem like they want to destroy you. I wasn't in that bad a spot though, the girl I was with knew about her issues, acceptance or discovery weren't really her issues, she/we just couldn't deal with them.