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Originally Posted by djchameleon
He's mad picky about treats. I know how to handle him but I mean having a stranger do the same things I do. He would have to really warm up to you after a few weeks before any of that sort of touching goes on. Even though I've had him for a few years sometimes he is still stand offish with me. My method is a bit different.
I put my hand out so that the kitty can smell it and know that it's safe then I touch the top of their head and move to back behind the ears then I go for under the chin. Under the chin is the last spot I attempt because if they aren't ready for it they may snap at me. I've never had a cat snap at me but it seems like something they would do if they don't want you touching them under their chin space.
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Poor little guy
In my experience, female cats can be a bit more skittish like that, and take longer to warm up, but I usually find that male cats are more chill, and more open to affection. He sounds like he was maybe abused by a previous owner, or perhaps he's simply old and full of physical ailments and therefore is uncomfortable being touched. Sending my good kitty vibes his way, poor baby.