I don't have anything useful to say but if he wants to get better the priority has to be getting some sort of help and kicking the booze. Then working with a doctor to find the right sort of therapy. I dunno what his situation is like.
Tbh I'm crap at helping other people.
If you think he will act on his thoughts obviously call the emergency services, and take any threats very seriously.
Also I dunno if you really are there for him any time of the day but remember to look after yourself mate. We all want to help our friends but you have to look after yourself as well.
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