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View Poll Results: Physical punishment aganist children. Acceptable or Unacceptable?
Acceptable 50 56.82%
Unacceptable 38 43.18%
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Old 04-08-2009, 07:13 AM   #121 (permalink)
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That's right and if they give ya any lip, beat them with a sack of Florida oranges, it won't leave a bruise and it'll show 'em who's boss.


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Old 04-08-2009, 09:56 AM   #122 (permalink)
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I think it's perfectly fine for a parent to inflict pain on their children as a last resort of getting through to them. Of course this needs to be done strategically... the "wait till your father gets home" method isn't a good way of going about it. If too much time passes after the bad behavior, then beating the child is useless as they most likely won't directly connect the punishment to that beating and will eventually be bad again. If you are a good parent and have patients to take the time to raise your child to realize when they are bad by using "a look" or words and that still doesn't work... then I say slap the little brat. If you are a cowardly parent who rather neglect their kids and just beats them for any little thing before trying other methods, well... then you are an abusive prick and deserve to go to jail and/or have your child taken from you.

There is a difference between proper discipline and improper abuse... as long as the parent is using the appropriate methods in order to raise their children, I say the government should stay the f*ck out of it.
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Old 04-09-2009, 11:35 AM   #123 (permalink)
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I agree..
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Old 04-09-2009, 01:43 PM   #124 (permalink)
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people should generally just stop having children IMO.
I agree to a certain extent. I think the more intelligent ones should start producing. I think Bobby-Jo from SC has **** out another kids for the entire south. Maybe Bill Hicks donating some sperm. I can only hope.
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Old 04-09-2009, 01:44 PM   #125 (permalink)
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COMPLETELY UNNACCEPTABLE!

Does anyone who voted acceptable have children?

I believe in strict discipline but thats physical abuse. Do you beat your women as well?
Parents are who children confide in. I could write 15 pages about this but my daughter is sleeping in my arms so i have to type with one hand.

Sick ****s. If I ever see a man hit his kid Ill beat his ass right on the street. I cant believe this poll.
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If your children respect you, they'll listen. If they dont listen youre a poor parent anyways so you'll resort to abuse.
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Old 04-09-2009, 01:48 PM   #127 (permalink)
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I agree that kids need negative consequences for negative actions and I also agree that punishment needs to be consistent so they know what goes and what doesn't.

However, have you ever thought about replacing the ass-whoopin' with another less physical method like timeout? Or do you feel that physical punishment is the only viable option here?

And this might be a weird thing to ask, but do you feel like if your children don't respond well to spanking, the solution is to spank them harder next time? I'm guessing I would because it seems intuitive.
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COMPLETELY UNNACCEPTABLE!

Does anyone who voted acceptable have children?

I believe in strict discipline but thats physical abuse. Do you beat your women as well?
Parents are who children confide in. I could write 15 pages about this but my daughter is sleeping in my arms so i have to type with one hand.

Sick ****s. If I ever see a man hit his kid Ill beat his ass right on the street. I cant believe this poll.
I do and voted acceptable, but only if its in the moment so they know why it happened.. For the record your kids dont believe that its acceptable to hit because you pop them on the butt when they are bad.. They learn that pain is something that happens when you do the wrong thing. As you get older, its replaced by far worse things then getting spanked on the butt...

You on the other hand it sounds like abuse your talking about. A spank on the butt is not child abuse at all.

Ps I let the wife spank the little girl.. Only if she is being super bad.. Its not like we tourture them or anything or abuse them in any way.

Also when your kids talk back to you what do you do?? Saying that spanking them will make them violent is retarded that means that what ever you choose to do it will teach them that... Perhaps your child will learn to stare at a wall when she gets in to deep.
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Old 04-09-2009, 01:51 PM   #129 (permalink)
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do any of yall got kids? Thats my first question.
i got three children 11,8 and 4.

Do i spank em? GOttDamm right I do, if they Try to Disrespect me or an Elder.
(children test their limits) thats a fact.( not my lil one tho) shes still learnin REspect.
IF you dont give a $hit bout your child you will let him do whatever the fack he/she wants to do with out callin him/her out.

That IMO is messed up.
I would rather my kids know whats up and whats expected from them and whats expected from THier mommas side, than be all weird and shady bout $hit!
You act like there are only 2 sides. Beat your kids or they will act shady. Or you could be there best friend and they wont keep secrets from you and they will respect you.


But anyways have fun when youre kids flinch everytime you wave or sneeze, ddouchebag..sorry had to add that.
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I do and voted acceptable, but only if its in the moment so they know why it happened.. For the record your kids dont believe that its acceptable to hit because you pop them on the butt when they are bad.. They learn that pain is something that happens when you do the wrong thing. As you get older, its replaced by far worse things then getting spanked on the but...

You on the other hand sound like its about abuse. A spank on the butt is not child abuse at all.
The posts I was referring to mostly are 'Gottdamn Ill whopp tere ass'

Ill never spank my children, to each is own when it comes to spanking... to a degree.
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