Neapolitan

Well in my neck of the woods they aint called "male sluts" they be called "cooter hounds" and it is pretty devastating to one's character to be called one at that tbh.

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Sansa Stark

are you serious? people in real life actually call other people "cooter hounds"

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butthead aka 216

cunt hunters

Burning Down

We just call them man whores here.

4gotmyPW

"man whore" "cooter hounds" aka your avg male. Sluts shouldn't be self righteous though

midnight rain

I can see why the stigma is there. men have to work for sex, so it's sort of an achievement when they get it. women have to walk into a bar/party with revealing clothing to send the message

djchameleon

depends on the guy but yes for a large majority of guys they have to "work" for sex.

You have to be joking!

It's only devastating to one's character to be called "thirsty" basically when a guy is trying too hard to chase pussy. He shouldn't be working so hard to chase pussy in the first place but that's neither here or there some guys need all the help they can get.

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GuD

I'm not the most 'experienced' guy in the world so my thoughts on this are largely speculation on perhaps cliche examples. That said, I don't think less of women who sleep around because they sleep around. I'm not attracted to women who sleep around with *******s who don't care about them because to me that's weak and weakness to me is very unattractive. And it's not that they slept with a bunch of scuzzy douche bags that turns me off, it's that they slept with any of them in the first place. They fell for it, they got scammed, they were manipulated and didn't stick up for themselves. Everyone makes mistakes but part of being an intelligent, responsible, and (imo) attractive human being is learning from those mistakes.

I must add, though, that I'm aware that plenty of women might engage in this kind of behavior fully knowing that they're nothing to the guy and who just want to get laid as well- I really don't care about this either but these women usually don't have the same taste in men as the ones who seemingly sleep around for the hell of it, because they think they're supposed to, or because they don't realize they're being used. They're probably not gonna go after the guy who seems like he's gonna brag to his bros about how he nailed some bitch last night, and they're the kinda gal I actually hope to run into on the rare occasion I go out, be it for a casual one night stand, fling, or something serious. Is there a secret club or something somewhere though because I haven't had much (see:any) luck.

All that aside, I always wondered how queer couples feel about promiscuity. As of now this thread seems entirely biased towards straight women, any lesbos out their care to chime in?

As far as man-whoring goes, it seems almost inherently predatory, sadistic, and borderline rapey to try and manipulate women (or anyone, really) into having sex. So men (or anyone, really) who do that are by my standards scumbags, as is anyone who looks up to someone who is "good" at doing that (ie, bar studs). However, there's also the guys that don't manipulate or deceive whom women are attracted to and will throw themselves at. I don't see anything wrong with that so long as everyone involved has a clear understanding of what each other's expectations are. It's all about compromise and to be fair you really have to take it on a case by case basis.


Also djchameleon, your avatar gave me a boner. I am on a bus, damn you. dat ass, dang. O___________O.

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butthead aka 216

i think ass napkin is right in the thought that a lot of slutty chicks have some sort of daddy issues. its not a coincidence it seems like a good number of strippers, pornstars, whores, etc have problems with their father. i think its just a feelin of needin that male affection that they never got and always wished they had

personally i dont wanna know how many dudes my chick has slept with. theres more damage to be done than good by knowin. either way its weird to meet their guy friends for the first time cause your tryna be cool and sociable and make a good impression but at the same time, and every guy knows i speak the truth, but in the back of your head youre talkin to the guy and thinkin 'hmmm did my girl sleep with this guy?? blow him?' and ya kinda wanna know those things but kinda dont

im fine with how society is cause im a man lol so i will let feminists tackle the slut issue or whatever. my main issue is ppl knowin what the reactions will be then doin it anyway and complainin about the said reaction. i mean i know girls whove slept with good numbers of guys but they are more discreet and dont flaunt it everywhere. if youre gonna flaunt what a slut you are then dont be surprised when ppl think of you as a skank and cry about it, its all about the presentation and appearance


whateverdude, ya bring up a good point my man. maybe women feel the same way about men but, especially when ya live in a small town and tend to know who has fukced with who over the years, some ppl become undateable because of their poor choice in partners. like if a chick has spent her teens and early 20s sleepin with a string of losers and douches then thats an immeidate flag that she doesnt have the best taste or judgement for me

GuD

I kind of agree with the second thing you said but you don't have to be a woman to be a feminist. I'm sure many of the more extreme variety of feminists would disagree but having male support and input (especially straight male's) is just as valuable. When talking about equality between sexes one must remember that there are two, and men and women ought to learn to cooperate as best they can (same goes for other things ie. race, socioeconomic background, etc.) and make sure that everyone is on the same page and not made to feel or be comparatively inadequate.

That's basically exactly what I said, women like that aren't attractive because they don't make wise decisions or learn from their mistakes. I'm not sure if this is what you're doing but I don't think it's fair to look down on women like that though, they're obviously damaged and scorn can only make things worse for them. I would say to try and help them but I've tried that (once) and it did not go well for either of us. I don't have all the answers and if I did I bet I would end up wishing I didn't.

E: after re-reading my first post I realized I might not have given the impression I meant to. I'll edit that one too.

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