Newkie

Wait, my "i don't care if she doesn't enjoy it she's getting money " philosophy paints me as a woman? **** you Fred. No homo.

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Burp for me baby burp.

Newkie

Haha a dominating burp? Well I guess that makes sense.

That's quite interesting though, so you grew into the dominatrix persona and it helped you, you weren't like it from the start? I'd never really thought of therapeutic benefits to it but kudos that's pretty cool. The usual backlash response for *****y relationships for both genders is to sleep around, then it seems to come down to the individual whether that helps or just messes you up further.

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Newkie

I don't work for free bby. Chuck us a tenner en'

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Sansa Stark

I've always been a bossy, domineering type. With my ex, I really had to tone that down and not be the person I was, and I sacrificed a lot for him and I was like spending all my money on him and **** like that, but being a dominatrix and making good money, you have to really believe you're deserving of being paid for your time, and you really start to become the part, believing you're worthy of all this ridiculous cash and devotion and I realised that I was getting more of that from my client than I was from my boyfriend, who only just took and took and took from me, if I ever tried to have good things for myself, or time for myself, even just a few hours to myself to read a book or something without him needing my ****ing attention, he called me a selfish bitch, so I realised he was abusive and I was getting nothing out of the relationship, it was more like I was punishing myself for ****ing up other relationships, but being a dominatrix made me realise I deserved better.

In a lot of ways, being a dominatrix is a lot like being a therapist, I provide a safe space in which my clients can explore their sexuality and fetishes without being judged, because as long as their fetish doesn't hurt other people and the other party is consenting, I don't judge, at all. I also don't push my clients, like especially when I do blackmail, I don't actually "blackmail" them because I'm not greedy and I care for their safety....well except the one time I found out one guy had a crushing fetish (where you crush small animals....) so I emailed everyone from his inbox, all his contacts saying "I like poopy porn I'm so ashamed " lmao

Newkie

Ahh right yeah that makes more sense, I was gunna say it would be crazy to go from the mousy type to a dominatrix in the blink of an eye. It's good you found a way out of that though, the guy sounds more like a pimp than a boyfriend.

Crushing animals? Ha actually I guess it could get a lot worse. Good job though, crushing of balls is but animals? The world definitely needs people to listen/explore others fetishes and it's better it's done with you in a "safe" environment and no judgement. I was always a bit wary of my/others fantasies, but one of the girls I mentioned above was so forward, literally the second time I met her she was saying about incest fantasies straight off the bat. After that I was just like...meh, I'm not weird in the slightest then.

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butthead aka 216

Most jobs require co-workers or policies the employee doesn't like. Customer service can definitely be one of them.

I think the reason a lot of people look down on sex workers isn't just because they see it as demeaning but because they see it that way AND it requires very little skill. It's kinda like a social totem pole in my opinion. Those with high-paying AND well respected jobs are near the top (doctors would be a good example). And I think the criteria for the totem pole is a combination of education, experience, service to society (does it benefit society?), and pay scale. I'm sure there are others factors, but those seem to be main indicators to me of where someone falls on that totem pole solely based on their job.

So when you consider that sex workers are probably one of the more looked-down-upon jobs, I don't think it's very surprising. The money can be pretty good, but it requires no sort of education or credentials (Maybe you could argue being attractive for those hott enough to be in big-time magazines and porn productions) and no experience. I think the biggest factor is the service to society or lack thereof that sex workers provide. Most people would probably consider sex workers to have some of the lowest services to society. Helping a fat, bald 45 year old get off in his computer room really isn't seen as beneficial to anyone except for one individual for a few minutes. I also think society in general believes sex workers lack virtue. I think future consequences of the job (pics/videos) also leads people to question the intelligence or morals of sex workers.



Lots of generalizing of course

Since hermione claims to be a sex worker, do you consider yourself a prostitute?

Dr_Rez

I don't know why you say it like that, she claims...what reason has she given you that you would doubt it?

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butthead aka 216

cause i just signed up on this site and dont know her at all. you can rephrase that sentence and i still mean the same thing.

djchameleon

you don't even know though. If that 45 year old bald guy didn't get off in his computer room he might have gone out and raped some women.

Surely that is a benefit for society , helping to channel his sexual urges so he just doesn't act on them out in public and take what he can't get otherwise or get released in one way or another.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.