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Old 04-08-2021, 03:16 PM   #2901 (permalink)
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I had another crisis moment but I'm already feeling better about it.

I had a coworker that used to come into work drunk all the time and pick fights. He has a history of being drunk and actually fighting people despite their zero tolerance policies. With my two months of employment I have been challenged to fight him 5 times. He's threatened me. He's treated me like absolute ****. My 3rd week there I spoke out about it because we had been lectured about workplace behavior as a group multiple times even though he's the only one that's doing it. Since then despite him treating me like absolute dog **** he was still better, as in not threatening me and giving me hard stares, so I tried to be patient with him because I completely understand how hard it is to deal with anger issues and alcoholism and etc. etc. which in retrospect is unfair to myself because I was holding me to a higher standard than I was holding him. On Tuesday, the first real low day I've had since November he starts arguing with me over something stupid and treating me like **** again so I lost my temper and pushed a stack of cages over. He tells me to get out so I go to calm down but he and our other coworker that he simps for go to snitch on me so I walk back over angrily and immediately get fired which really just triggered me into panic mode. Long story short he challenged me to a fight again and since I was already fired I accepted. He walked away with a bloody mouth, I walked away with a bruised fist and unemployed. I don't know if this is part of the pattern or if It's just a situational thing but I'm going to be seeking disability as much as I don't want to.
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Old 04-08-2021, 03:32 PM   #2902 (permalink)
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oh jesus that really sucks. I must admit I'm not sure what seeking disability entails exactly but regardless of those details I fully support any kind of financial stability for you, you deserve it. That guy is an absolute *******, no wonder you snapped. I hope you're ok.
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Old 04-08-2021, 03:45 PM   #2903 (permalink)
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I'm okay, and during the HR meeting to let me know I was fired, (I deserved it TBH I wouldn't have been fired if I'd have left when I was originally told I was fired there is no excuse for my behavior and I ultimately let myself down.) they got lectured about knowing he comes into work drunk, knowing he tries to fight people, knowing that he actually has fought people and letting him get away with it. It would be far less upsetting if there wasn't a blatant double standard there.
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Old 04-08-2021, 03:50 PM   #2904 (permalink)
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yeah exactly, it just sounds very unfair
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Old 04-08-2021, 03:56 PM   #2905 (permalink)
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Well at least you ****ed him up. Maybe he'll think twice before he tries that **** again. Maddrox and Monoxide would be proud.
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Old 04-08-2021, 04:00 PM   #2906 (permalink)
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Well at least you ****ed him up. Maybe he'll think twice before he tries that **** again. Maddrox and Monoxide would be proud.
****ed him up is an overstatement, but he definitely won't stop. He's also known for getting into bar fights and coming in hurt because of it.

I think it's funny that the brewery has higher standards than the University.

Edit: As unhealthy as it is to say I'm glad I got to fight him. I wanted to do it so bad.
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Well then it's good that you're out of that environment. Now go collect unemployment and light a cigar with a twenty dollar bill.
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I'm going with disability and I prefer a job. I don't want this one fumble to ruin every bit of progress that I made and stop me from where I was going.
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I'm no expert but mother is on disability and she can't have a job and still get disability. Maybe there's different categories of disability but I don't know, dude.
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I'm no expert but mother is on disability and she can't have a job and still get disability. Maybe there's different categories of disability but I don't know, dude.
Yeah, it's you have to prove you are uncapable of holding a job to go on disability. So if I get a job, I'll be pulled off. But I want to pursue a job regardless. I'm just afraid that I can't keep one and that this isn't just a situational thing.
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