The Bitch Box

RoxyRollah · 05-05-2014, 06:49 PM

That feeling when your ass hole ex, calls you and irritates the piss out of you, and you really want to post about what a cocksucker he is but you can't because he is a member, and a rude post will result in an infraction!

oops! I claim turrets!

GuD · 05-05-2014, 06:55 PM

when your room is so dirty you don't know how to start cleaning it...

Black Francis · 05-05-2014, 07:27 PM

@Roxy

Wait, your ex is a member here? did you meet him here?
should i not ask this? am i prying? am i asking too many questions now? huh? HUH!?

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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem

I hate when people tell me their whole life story, or infect the good times with therapy hour conversations. When there's more than one doing this all either blow eachother or passively compete over who's more 'unique'.

this happens alot and not just with depression, it happens with drug stories, sex stories, etc.

everybody starts to try to one up the guy before.

RoxyRollah · 05-05-2014, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

@Roxy

Wait, your ex is a member here? did you meet him here?
should i not ask this? am i prying? am i asking too many questions now? huh? HUH!?

this happens alot and not just with depression, it happens with drug stories, sex stories, etc.

everybody starts to try to one up the guy before.

No I didn't meet him here, he followed me here. I met him when I was 17. I am 29. We have been connected to each other in one form or another for 11 years. Can't seem to get rid of him. Like a case of herpes. I say this because he is not a member y'all would know at all he joined last year and has 1 post. But a member is a memeber is a member.

Black Francis · 05-05-2014, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

No I didn't meet him here, he followed me here. I met him when I was 17. I am 29. We have been connected to each other in one form or another for 11 years. Can't seem to get rid of him. Like a case of herpes. I say this because he is not a member y'all would know at all he joined last year and has 1 post. But a member is a memeber is a member.

Sounds like my ex as well. lol

She even did that same thing and followed me to a site spying in my conversations and everything.

She didn't do it for too long though.

RoxyRollah · 05-05-2014, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

Sounds like my ex as well. lol

She even did that same thing and followed me to a site spying in my conversations and everything.

She didn't do it for too long though.

Bro he doesn't really spy, he is a legitimate music lover. And has killer taste. He is the best thing that ever happened to me musically. But ruined my life, not once, not twice, but three times. I just don't understand the need to come on here. Man this place is my sanctuary. You feel me bro? It wireds me out a tad. That to me is stranger then meeting someone here and having a relationship, with them that floods into your personal life.

The Batlord · 05-06-2014, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem

I hate when people tell me their whole life story, or infect the good times with therapy hour conversations. When there's more than one doing this all either blow eachother or passively compete over who's more 'unique'.

Okay, so you're clinically depressed. Go tell a professional and lets get back to our conversation about who has the tiniest dong. I aint here to play mommy.

Edited for accuracy.

I hate those friendships based on trauma-bonding. Just because we both have daddy issues and like to get sad when we're wasted doesn't mean we actually have anything to talk about in the real world.

Tristesse · 05-06-2014, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem

I hate when people tell me their whole life story, or infect the good times with therapy hour conversations. When there's more than one doing this all either blow eachother or passively compete over who's more 'unique'.

Okay, so you're clinically depressed. Go tell a professional and lets get back to our conversation about who has the tiniest dong. I aint here to play mommy.

Edited for accuracy.

I have to admit, these things do sound remarkably similar to a lot of my conversations. I tend to get all 'deep', especially when drunk. And when I say 'deep', what I mean is annoying and mopey.

Carpe Mortem · 05-06-2014, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

I hate those friendships based on trauma-bonding. Just because we both have daddy issues and like to get sad when we're wasted doesn't mean we actually have anything to talk about in the real world.

Yup. I overall just hate friendships based on anything except sharing a mutually good time though. Some might say it makes me a ****ty friend that I'm never the shoulder to cry on, but come the **** on, that's what your boyfriend/girlfriend/mom/dad/therapist is for. Or your other gibbering friends. People hang with me when they're confident enough to just enjoy something with a little company.

~~hate paper doll~~ · 05-06-2014, 04:15 PM

I wound up being fired from my last job due to personal reasons beyond my control, and I specifically asked my boss if I could still use her as a reference. She agreed and I've been on multiple interviews that seem to go well, yet I've received no offers. They were slow in getting my W2 to me as well, so when I picked it up I asked her if people were calling about me. She said yes and that she's spoken well about me each time. So I go on an interview that seems to go great, I get calls from some of my other references saying they'd been contacted and all spoke highly of me. I'm feeling confident until the woman I interviewed with calls me to ask me questions about why my last boss called me "sweet but emotionally unstable". On one hand, now I know why I've yet to find work but on the other hand I'm pretty upset. Now I have to regroup and figure out what to do to rectify the situation.

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~~hate paper doll~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Apr 2014 Posts: 423	I wound up being fired from my last job due to personal reasons beyond my control, and I specifically asked my boss if I could still use her as a reference. She agreed and I've been on multiple interviews that seem to go well, yet I've received no offers. They were slow in getting my W2 to me as well, so when I picked it up I asked her if people were calling about me. She said yes and that she's spoken well about me each time. So I go on an interview that seems to go great, I get calls from some of my other references saying they'd been contacted and all spoke highly of me. I'm feeling confident until the woman I interviewed with calls me to ask me questions about why my last boss called me "sweet but emotionally unstable". On one hand, now I know why I've yet to find work but on the other hand I'm pretty upset. Now I have to regroup and figure out what to do to rectify the situation.