The Sexual Experience Thread

[duga]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

Definitely not. I've already had a boyfriend like that and I was wanting it a couple of times a day and he asked to have a sex free time with me. Ha! That didn't last long.

What if he still wanted it...just not as often as you?

Here's my thing...I'm dating a Filipino girl and in my experience they are fairly sexual beings (at least more than the white girls I've dated in the past). I kinda knew what I was getting into, but I took on the relationship anyway. I like sex...don't get me wrong. I think about it all the time. However, unless I can just role on top of her and get the party going sex involves quite a bit of leg work. Foreplay, getting everyone in the mood, even preparing myself so I can focus on her and not finish way too soon....it all takes work. Despite my love of sex, there are times when I am just not in the mood to get past all the work to actually get to stickin it in (I couldn't think of a nicer way to put that). So yeah, I don't want it as often as her. Granted, my view has always been 3-4 times a week is still a healthy sexual relationship. Despite this, she wanted more so it was kind of a point of tension for a while in the beginning. We've come to an understanding because when we do have sex, we are both into it and "emotionally connected" as Freebase was talking about and all the other stuff in our relationship is worth more to her than just doin it twice a day.

I guess what I'm getting to is...I'm sure there's some level of compromise for everyone if two people are emotionally connected on any level. Sometimes it's a sexual connection, sometimes it's a personal connection (which I think is much more long lasting and meaningful). You need both...I agree with Freebase on that...but I think there's more to it and I think there are ways to keep both people happy.

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

Here's a hypothetical question for the ladies of MB. Would you date a guy who fulfilled your emotional needs, but was uninterested in sex. Perhaps not to the point of unwilling to have it, but is open in his dissatisfaction with it. In effect he'd let you use his body for your own satisfaction, while not gaining any for himself, basically becoming a living sex toy that hogs the sheets and farts on your legs.

No, I don't think I could do that. I don't want to have sex with somebody who's not going to be into it as much as I am. Total emotional fulfillment for me includes all aspects of sexuality (including kissing). If he's not interested in ANY part of sex at all, then he's not my boyfriend - he's my roommate. And if we're not living together, then he's in the friend zone.

Originally Posted by jackhammer

Congrats for enjoying but if he's good then it should happen more often.

**** all the male bravado about how many times or who with etc if a man can get in a car and drive it at fifty for an hour and know WHEN to step on the gas to reach the speed limit instead of driving at eighty all the time and not stopping to enjoy the view then he has no appreciation of what he is driving.

Much more satisfying to reach the destination together.

Analogy over. Need to look at some views.

Well I think he's good, but then again I have nothing to compare with. I was a completely blank slate when I met him - hadn't kissed, hadn't had sex, hadn't even done any hand holding...

[Franco Pepe Kalle]

Originally Posted by Burning Down

No, I don't think I could do that. I don't want to have sex with somebody who's not going to be into it as much as I am. Total emotional fulfillment for me includes all aspects of sexuality (including kissing). If he's not interested in ANY part of sex at all, then he's not my boyfriend - he's my roommate. And if we're not living together, then he's in the friend zone.

Burning Down, you are so cute and you are becoming more interesting than ever. I love you

[Howard the Duck]

to tell you all the truth, i'm getting fedup with relationships

i'm going to look or a black hooker

[Franco Pepe Kalle]

Originally Posted by Howard the Duck

to tell you all the truth, i'm getting fedup with relationships

i'm going to look or a black hooker

I think you should be able to get several strippers. I mean one of the best areas for strippers is in Minneaoplis, Minnesota. I don't live that far from Minneapolis. Trust me, I used to live in Minneapolis, I mean I use to see strippers. I also spanked a few booties myself. I was so happy. Go to Minneapolis, you will find several strippers there.

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle

Burning Down, you are so cute and you are becoming more interesting than ever. I love you

You don't even know me.

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle

I think you should be able to get several strippers. I mean one of the best areas for strippers is in Minneaoplis, Minnesota. I don't live that far from Minneapolis. Trust me, I used to live in Minneapolis, I mean I use to see strippers. I also spanked a few booties myself. I was so happy. Go to Minneapolis, you will find several strippers there.

You know he lives halfway around the world in Malaysia, right? Just making that clear.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle

Go to Minneapolis, you will find several strippers there.

Sigged.

[jackhammer]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

Alright, I get what you're saying about sex, but what the **** are you talking about with the whole car thing?!

Already stated that it was an analogy. Just because a man can bang fast, doesn't mean that he always should. I got it anyhow!

[14232949]

Originally Posted by Howard the Duck

to tell you all the truth, i'm getting fedup with relationships

i'm going to look or a black hooker

Use Craigslist.
Their 'casual encounters' are always good for a few laughs.

[likuidcoka]

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