The Confessional Thread

windsock · 12-18-2018, 05:30 PM

Just call me Quasar. If you don't I'll go on an autistic rampage.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 11-13-2021, 04:49 PM

I most likely have undiagnosed ADD. It's really common to miss in women. Going to get a diagnosis at some point but most of my ADD riddled colleagues think I have it and I calm down with Ritalin.

11-23-2021, 01:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sansa Stark

I find girls who want to be boys appalling
I check out asses more than I'd like to admit

Me as a tomboy:

11-23-2021, 01:52 PM

My confession: I love fart jokes, toilet jokes and would want to wear men’s underwear(boxer shorts) one day ha ha.

ribbons · 12-03-2021, 03:24 PM

Feeling anxious as my ex-husband has been leaving voicemails saying he's breaking up with his girlfriend and moving to a new apartment and wants to talk. We rarely talk and this only happens when he's in between relationships. I wish he wanted to talk to his own children more than once or twice a year. He's very narcissistic and it triggers me when I hear from him. Last time he started contacting me (again, during a breakup) he insinuated he would like to reconcile (a completely crazy notion given our history and his non-involvement with our children) but I gingerly changed the topic and he started showing his temper to me. Anyway, I may or may not call back this weekend (else his messages will become more hostile) but just the thought of it is making my hands shake as I type this.

The Batlord · 12-03-2021, 03:43 PM

Text him back: **** off

Tristan_Geoff · 12-03-2021, 03:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ribbons

Feeling anxious as my ex-husband has been leaving voicemails saying he's breaking up with his girlfriend and moving to a new apartment and wants to talk. We rarely talk and this only happens when he's in between relationships. I wish he wanted to talk to his own children more than once or twice a year. He's very narcissistic and it triggers me when I hear from him. Last time he started contacting me (again, during a breakup) he insinuated he would like to reconcile (a completely crazy notion given our history and his non-involvement with our children) but I gingerly changed the topic and he started showing his temper to me. Anyway, I may or may not call back this weekend (else his messages will become more hostile) but just the thought of it is making my hands shake as I type this.

on the contrary to Batlord's suggestion, have you ever considered blocking him?

rubber soul · 12-03-2021, 03:50 PM

You may want to consider getting a restraining order. Do you fear for your safety?

ribbons · 12-03-2021, 03:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Batlord

Text him back: **** off

He hasn't texted this time, only voicemails - but it will eventually be texts too I think. Thanks for the suggestion, but I feel that will provoke him and make things worse.

ribbons · 12-03-2021, 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tristan_Geoff

on the contrary to Batlord's suggestion, have you ever considered blocking him?

No, I haven't - my approach has been to "manage" him over the years. I can usually do that successfully but it's stressful sometimes.

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11-13-2021, 04:49 PM	#4092 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	I most likely have undiagnosed ADD. It's really common to miss in women. Going to get a diagnosis at some point but most of my ADD riddled colleagues think I have it and I calm down with Ritalin.

11-23-2021, 01:52 PM	#4094 (permalink)
dxgtCdds Guest Posts: n/a	My confession: I love fart jokes, toilet jokes and would want to wear men’s underwear(boxer shorts) one day ha ha.

12-03-2021, 03:24 PM	#4095 (permalink)
ribbons Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,265	Feeling anxious as my ex-husband has been leaving voicemails saying he's breaking up with his girlfriend and moving to a new apartment and wants to talk. We rarely talk and this only happens when he's in between relationships. I wish he wanted to talk to his own children more than once or twice a year. He's very narcissistic and it triggers me when I hear from him. Last time he started contacting me (again, during a breakup) he insinuated he would like to reconcile (a completely crazy notion given our history and his non-involvement with our children) but I gingerly changed the topic and he started showing his temper to me. Anyway, I may or may not call back this weekend (else his messages will become more hostile) but just the thought of it is making my hands shake as I type this.