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Old 11-26-2020, 10:41 AM   #501 (permalink)
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Old 11-26-2020, 11:38 AM   #502 (permalink)
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It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.

I've had this same complaint from multiple women. "I just wanted you to listen, not solve the problem."

I guess I get the frustration on their end but on my end it's why even bring it up if you don't want answers. Cause it's boring to me to just listen to people's unsolved problems.
Yes, this very much a male vs female brain thing. Can confirm, mental health care providers have explained this to me many times.
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Old 11-26-2020, 12:38 PM   #503 (permalink)
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I try to offer help to my female friends.

EDIT - And male ones.
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Old 11-26-2020, 01:38 PM   #504 (permalink)
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I try to offer help to my female friends.

EDIT - And male ones.
Nice try, simp.
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There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.
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Old 11-26-2020, 04:47 PM   #505 (permalink)
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ah it was a joke about me being too rich to be punk

on the real, it's not that bourgeois to put an emphasis on priority

also, you can decide how much this matters

but the societal standard for men is way different on this, a woman is doing fine if she simply has a job...

a man is a ****ing loser if he's in his mid 20s and he's working that same job with no ambition
I think it's absolutely bourgeois. I agree that the standard for men and women is different, but this is exactly the kind of thinking which perpetuates that. And if a girl rejects a guy for reasons like that then good riddance I guess
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Old 11-26-2020, 04:58 PM   #506 (permalink)
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to suggest that some things require more immediate attention than relationships?
oh no I agree with that of course. I meant judging people by how interesting their life is (as in whether they have an interesting job/are successful)
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Old 11-26-2020, 05:10 PM   #507 (permalink)
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It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.

I've had this same complaint from multiple women. "I just wanted you to listen, not solve the problem."

I guess I get the frustration on their end but on my end it's why even bring it up if you don't want answers. Cause it's boring to me to just listen to people's unsolved problems.
I suck at giving advice but I always listen.

Steph is always giving me the advice and it's usually good advise and I like it.
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Old 11-26-2020, 05:53 PM   #508 (permalink)
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I think she's conveniently forgetting my great advice not to buy a house with her ex.
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Old 11-26-2020, 08:21 PM   #509 (permalink)
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I suck at giving advice but I always listen.

Steph is always giving me the advice and it's usually good advise and I like it.
that's cause you're the woman in the relationship
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Old 11-26-2020, 08:32 PM   #510 (permalink)
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