Rape - Whose Fault Is It? - Music Banter Music Banter

Go Back   Music Banter > Community Center > The Lounge > Games, Lists, Jokes and Polls
Register Blogging Today's Posts
Welcome to Music Banter Forum! Make sure to register - it's free and very quick! You have to register before you can post and participate in our discussions with over 70,000 other registered members. After you create your free account, you will be able to customize many options, you will have the full access to over 1,100,000 posts.

View Poll Results: Can you blame the victim for getting raped when raping someone is illegal?
Yes 7 13.73%
No 44 86.27%
Voters: 51. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 07-05-2013, 07:56 PM   #31 (permalink)
The Aerosol in your Soul
 
Rjinn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: New South Wales, Australia
Posts: 1,546
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by tore View Post
Today in the news, I read an article that some Egyptian politicians say it's womens own fault for getting raped if they join in the current demonstrations. That made me wonder how people in general feel about this controversial topic.

So, in western society, raping someone is illegal and a rapist may have to take responsibility for that. But do you ever think the victim of a rape has to take responsibility for getting victimized in the first place? Is a rape the fault of the rapist, the victim or a bit of both?

I think we need to take consideration that the ideas and traditions in a lot of Middle eastern cultures is that women are still classed as second best, and to serve the male needs. Tendencies are to blame the women for any sexual provocation. Dressing is an example. So it's really a sexist situation for the most part over there.
__________________
last.fm
Rjinn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 09:28 PM   #32 (permalink)
A.B.N.
 
djchameleon's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: NY baby
Posts: 11,455
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by CrazyVegn View Post
When I was 16 I slept w/ a 41 yr old then when I was 17 I slept w/ a 60 yr old. I did these things bc I was angry.
Just because you felt like it was your decision doesn't mean you weren't raped. It's still statutory.
__________________
Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.


Quote:
Originally Posted by RoxyRollah View Post
IMO I don't know jack-**** though so don't listen to me.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle View Post
The problem is that most police officers in America are psychopaths.
Quote:
Originally Posted by The Batlord View Post
You're a terrible dictionary.
djchameleon is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 09:34 PM   #33 (permalink)
we are stardust
 
Astronomer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Australia
Posts: 2,894
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by djchameleon View Post
Just because you felt like it was your decision doesn't mean you weren't raped. It's still statutory.
Exactly.
__________________
Astronomer is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 09:35 PM   #34 (permalink)
The Music Guru.
 
Burning Down's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Beyond the Wall
Posts: 4,858
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lateralus View Post
A 16 year old apparently "consenting" to sex with someone a few years older than them is actually considered pedophilia in many instances...
Statutory rape actually, not pedophilia.

Quote:
Originally Posted by CrazyVegn View Post
I thought this said: Rope - Whose fault is it?
Who are the weirdos who voted yes?
I was wondering the same thing myself. Kind of makes me wish this was a public poll. It's never the victim's fault. Nobody ASKS to be raped FFS.
Burning Down is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 09:37 PM   #35 (permalink)
we are stardust
 
Astronomer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Australia
Posts: 2,894
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Burning Down View Post
Statutory rape actually, not pedophilia..
Yeah, I know, I already corrected myself in a previous post For some reason I thought it extended to 16 in some pedophilia cases but I was wrong!
__________________
Astronomer is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 09:39 PM   #36 (permalink)
Left due to ban epidemic
 
CrazyVegn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2013
Posts: 498
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by djchameleon View Post
Just because you felt like it was your decision doesn't mean you weren't raped. It's still statutory.
That's what I thought...
My ex raped me during the restraining order and I never reported it bc I could get in trouble for inviting him over. This was 8 yrs ago. I have no interest in pursuing the matter bc I never want to see him again. He stalked me for years, but he is long gone now.
CrazyVegn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 10:00 PM   #37 (permalink)
President spic
 
Justthefacts's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Waxahatchee
Posts: 4,861
Default

What kind of a senseless, inconsiderate bastard of a question is this? Of course it's the victim's fault.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by YorkeDaddy View Post
I love how you edited your post to officially out me out of the closet?" It's like you asked yourself if you were a big enough cunt in the post, concluded that you weren't, and added it in to satisfy your postly cunt quota
Quote:
Originally Posted by OccultHawk View Post
I converted to Islam today.

Allah Supreme.
A Love Supreme.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mondo Bungle View Post
saw LeBron James downtown but then I realized I'm just racist
The Best Collection You'll See Today
Justthefacts is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 11:03 PM   #38 (permalink)
Make it so
 
Scarlett O'Hara's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 6,181
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Burning Down View Post
Statutory rape actually, not pedophilia.


I was wondering the same thing myself. Kind of makes me wish this was a public poll. It's never the victim's fault. Nobody ASKS to be raped FFS.
Same here, I'd love to know who is saying its the victims fault!

I had sex when I was 15 with an 18 year old, but I was the one that initiated it so I don't believe it was rape in my case.
__________________
"Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots
Scarlett O'Hara is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 11:43 PM   #39 (permalink)
A.B.N.
 
djchameleon's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: NY baby
Posts: 11,455
Default

Doesn't matter still rape. He could have said no and turned you down. Lucky for him no one found out or he would be branded as a sex offender
__________________
Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.


Quote:
Originally Posted by RoxyRollah View Post
IMO I don't know jack-**** though so don't listen to me.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle View Post
The problem is that most police officers in America are psychopaths.
Quote:
Originally Posted by The Batlord View Post
You're a terrible dictionary.
djchameleon is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-05-2013, 11:58 PM   #40 (permalink)
Groupie
 
Join Date: Jul 2013
Location: Alberta
Posts: 1
Default

imagine if we blamed people who looked rich for getting mugged
Mice is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Similar Threads



© 2003-2024 Advameg, Inc.