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djchameleon · 02-23-2011, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by PurpleWolf

I thought you were going to discuss different techniques at least =\
Thats all

Oh okay. I will get to that eventually. A little bit later on tonight I will do a run down of the lingo that I use. I'm not sure if Dirty uses the same terms that I do but I will explain them in detail. After I give the run down on the lingo then I will create a few scenarios and how you should handle them.

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Originally Posted by Ghost

Man, I had the exact same experience. I really liked this girl and was having some pretty good conversations with her, so eventually i grew a pair and asked her to see a movie. She accepted, so naturally I was excited and told one of my friends. So, later that week before the date I was talking to her in the halls and he walks up and is like "how are you going to pay for your tickets? you're so poor hahaha" and stuff like that. I'm not really poor, my parents are separated and can't afford f cking 56" plasma screens or a new computer whenever they want, but what really pissed me off is that he f cked me over :/ We never even ended up going on that date either.

Man, I really hate cockblocks but when you are faced in situations like that. you can salvage the situation depending on what they said. In your situation, I would've told her he's a liar and he doesn't know anything about my life and just ask her what movie she wants to see and set the date. That was a situation where you could just keep pushing through the situation. I know how it feels though and sometimes you get disarmed and caught off guard by the cockblock that you don't know how to respond.

Hindsight is 20/20 but that was a relatively easy scenario to recover from. You could have even went as far to open your wallet and prove to her on the spot that you have money, if you were that desperate. If she left you though and listened to your friend, she probably wasn't worth it. Brush your shoulders off learn from that lesson and learn how to counter a situation like that in the future and not make the same mistake.