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Originally Posted by Dirty
Alright well a few things here. First off, Project Lauren still in effect but not going as easily as I thought. She's still really flirty and stuff but I see this being not worth my effort but my lack of caring might actually help. Last night she turned 21. Last minute she decided NOT to go out for it. This is obviously a red flag that she is not the type of girl I should be interested in. Her and her 5 girlfriends just hung out and watched movies and whatnot. I stopped in to say hi and got her a card with a ripped, shirtless guy and taped my face over his face which i thought was funny. Two of her friends are loud fat girls (the one who was in my room one night talking my ear off for hours) and my head was about to explode so I didn't stay long. Plus I don't wanna become too much of a friend. I am caring less and less which might be a good thing for my chances since I know shes interested and it forces her to be more active in pursuing me. Like she texts me nearly every day without any real reason and it's always flirty type stuff, but she doesn't drink much or do anything outside of the group of her friends. Basically what I am saying is I am cooler than her and her friends and it's a problem. They are nice and I like having them as friends, but they are content with sitting around all weekend having girl time and watching movies and stuff and I like to go out and get bombed and have fun. Hooking up with her is a challenge and I might abort the mission soon.
However, there was a girl I met at the bar a few weeks back who is decent looking and I can tell has a wild side. We planned to meet up last weekend but a female friend from home visited. I still made my way to the bar 30 minutes before closing and saw her with her friends. She didn't seem to recognize me and I was kinda bummed. She texted me at 3AM asking why I didnt show up and the next day I said that I was there but she ignored me. I think this is smart, what do you guys think: I kinda made it seemed like i was dissapointed she ignored me and make her feel a little bit bad and guilty. Which I think worked because she texted me a long text saying she was really drunk and she was so sorry and wants to see me again and all this. And if we do meet up this weekend, I figure it's something to playfully joke about, like "hey im surprised you showed up, thought you were gonna walk past me and ignore me again." I told her to get ahold of me this weekend too, and I think that's smart so I put the burden on HER. If she texts me to meet up I know she's still interested and if she doesn't, then i dont have to worry about it anymore. And I don't seem desperate for texting her to meet up.
and there's this girl I hooked up with awhile back, the "NIPPLES WERE SUCKED" video girl who got back with her boyfriend right afterwards. but she mysteriously texted me the other day just to say hi which tells me there could be a hookup possibility there.
Good to have some options, im gonna create more this weekend. The Battle of the Sexes questions didn't work well last weekend surprisingly.
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I'm right with you on this one. Cancel Project Lauren, it's funny that her name is lauren. I'm dealing with a Lauren of my own that I'm going to be seeing next week. I might have screwed my chances with her but in person I'll have a second chance to make up for my folly by text.
The second girl, you did everything that I would honestly and you are on the right track with that one. If she doesn't contact you then I always say, "On to the next one".
The third one, is she still with her bf and wants something on the low with you? Keep connections with her open just in case she wants a booty call/hookup in the near future by the sounds of it she probably wants to regardless.