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Originally Posted by Thom Yorke
This might work for you but I would never do this. Girls aren't dumb. They can see right through stuff like this. No girl is going to think some random guy is looking for a pasta sauce advisor in the grocery store. You might as well just ask her if she wants to try your alfredo sauce; it would have the same meaning behind it. There's no need to try to trick her or lie. They know what you're trying to do.
Which brings me to the next point: NEVER tell a girl you have a date or are in a relationship, etc. She could lose interest if she had any, or she'll see through it and think it's an immature way to try to pick up a girl. Chances are you won't be able to make such an impression on a girl you just met that you make her jealous enough about a date that she thinks it's worth her trouble to pursue any kind of interest she has in you.
Just be upfront. Well, not upfront as in "YOU PRETTY! CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER???", but don't try to hide any attraction. Again, they know why you chose to talk to them. Always good to ease in with some kind of witty remark (what that is depends on the situation... or how witty you are), and then just straight up flirt, which is the easiest thing in the world to do if you are confident. Humour, charm, confidence. Can't go wrong.
VERY broad advice, but alot of it is just comes down to spontaneity. I know this won't apply to people that are of a certain personality type, but it's what works for me.
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Okay that's your take on it but it works for me majority of the time. I know how to cook so I would ask and have asked for advice on pasta sauce. The last time I went grocery shopping I asked this older lady for advice on cooking oils. I wasn't trying to pick her up or start a conversation but I was just curious. When you know how to cook, you can talk about things it's not a lie.
So what if you tell a girl you have a date? that won't really matter. you DO know you can date multiply women at the same time right? as long as it's on a casual level.
Also, if you are confident enough, you can say you are in a relationship and then later when you are friends with the girl you can go ahead and lie saying that you broke up with your ex or w/e. Some friends of mines have done this but I don't bother with this strategy. It's not one that I approve of but I know that it works for them.
I don't see how asking for advice on something at a grocery store is bad imo. It's just something to break the ice and ease into a conversation. You don't have to lie or anything you can even say I ****ing suck at cooking but in a humorous way.