James let me throw some golden knowledge your way since I am a genius
be realistic, do you have a real shot with her? if the answer is no, dont waste your time trying to win her over or impress her because you'll just dig deeper and depper into the friend zone until you can never climb out.
if the answer is yes, become slightly distant from her. and by that I mean don't always jump at the chance to hang out whenever she asks. it's like, if she asks you to go shopping or something 'friendly' decline. when you get a crush on someone you want to make a good impression on them and basically make them happy so you end up trying too hard and she realizes how happy she is with you... as a friend.
that was not golden advice, i lied, but there may be a small nugget of solid advice in there somewhere. im trying to tell you to be careful to not bury yourself in the friendzone cause it can sneak up on you like that. im saying dont do stuff like talk on facebook chat for 3 hours every night and dont ever give any advice on anything having to do with her relationships or previous relationships or anything to do with guys she likes.
i am dead serious right now when i tell you to start drinking. drink with her sometime, and see what happens. you're young enough where you can get drunk and act totally ridiculous or be fake drunk and make a move and blame it completely on the booze.
tl;dr get hammered around her, kiss her, dont become best friend
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