Something I think is slightly disturbing is how much of porn/fictional sex is not consensual. In stuff like japanese hentai, women being forced into submission and giving sex seems to be the norm. "Rape fantasies" is not uncommon in "regular" porn either.
For many sexual offenders, the idea that women (or even children) want to be raped and that this is something normal people engage in is wishful thinking which can, at worst, develop into a nurtured psychosis. Of course, there are no women who would really like to be forced into sex. Pornography which supports that world view could help perpetuate such behavior.
Personally, I don't get the fascination. The most sexy women to me, and undoubtedly the ones who are better in bed, are the ones who want sex.
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