Originally Posted by Odyshape

I can't talk to her when she is mad. It just doesn't work. I have had some small success talking to her when she isn't mad but it doesn't take long before she throws away my attempts at being understanding and just forgets anything positive we had between us. I think a large part of that comes from the fact that she is SUPER stubborn and says things she doesn't mean to get a reaction out of me.

What this does is she will exaggerate how horrible I am but since she is so stubborn she will have to believe all the exaggerated things she said when she looks back and because of that she will HAVE to ignore any of the positive things that I do in order for her to remain consistent. I swear I feel like I have a aneurism when she does this, nothing I can think of frustrates me more.

She can go on for hours.... just building on what she already said and then extrapolating a multitude of reasons as to why I am a bad person its amazing how horrible some of the things she says sometimes are. I know she doesn't mean most of it but I just wish she would take a second to think about what she is saying. Its especially frustrating because she considers herself to be a super genius. Yet she puts such little thought into what she is saying.