Salami

Unknown Soldier is absolutely right here, you have to accept that adopting children is far more contraversial and much less accepted than gay marriage.
Remember, gay marriage is merely a union between two people who love each other, but bringing up children is really only possible in a family and means that the couple are trusted with nurturing the child and fulfilling the roles of a parent, which requires as a necessity to be in a family institution.
More people dislike this because they are concerned about the "possible" detrimental effect of having two fathers or two mothers will have on the child, whereas you must accept that a gay marriage is a union between two people which affects no one else.

Please read through this properly, I am not accusing you here of "hating gay people", I'm trying to say that Unknown Soldier is correct in saying that your position of opposing gay marriage is inconsistent with what you are claiming here. We aren't making "dumb accusations", we're saying that we find that what you're writing here is inconsistent with your argument.