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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete
I really wish I knew why I can't finish if I'm having sex or having fellatio performed on me, but I masturbate and be done in 5-minutes.
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Feeling pressure to perform, even if it's feeling pressure to finish, as opposed to just getting it up or maintaining it, would probably be the most common answer for people that experience this, I'd think.
It's sort of the opposite for me. I'm not saying I don't masturbate, but it's tough to work myself up to do it sometimes. I think it's because my imagination sucks in that I usually have to have a certain sense of realism to it, where I really have to feel like I'm experiencing it, which isn't really present when you're watching most porn. It's also possible that there's a certain romantic element to it as well. I don't think that can fully be the case, because I am not at all opposed to one-night stands, but I suppose there's a certain emotional aspect there as well, even if it's very minimal.