Don't know how I stumbled upon this thread, I was searching for something completely different. Anyway, I find it all interesting, mainly because I was born without my left hand. I can't say I've ever had a problem on the romantic front because of it - in fact if I do have an issue it's with my mouth.
I don't blame those who would have a problem with it on superficial grounds, we're human, though you could be missing out on the love of your life just because the person lacks 12 inches-or-so of a limb.
As far the dependence factor, human beings are incredibly adaptable. Granted, it was much easier for myself seeing as I haven't had to go through an acclimatisation process, but people learn to deal with it and lead as close to a full life as they possibly can. They have to. There's a guy I met who lost both is arms and legs, yet still managed to run a marathon. Says it all really.
I've forgotten what the fuck it was I was originally searching for now. Lame.
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