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Originally Posted by Rjinnx
I find it really hard to be attracted to people. It's a rarity. For some reason I don't notice others that way. I'm 23, young I guess, but I'm no where ready to have a relationship. Guess it's a commitment thing, or intimacy issues. I don't really know where to start, and it's been bothering me lately. Most people who know are stunned, and don't understand. All of them have been in a serious relationship which I don't understand. Especially the depth or seriousness of it that comes naturally. That way It scares me sometimes. Maybe the capability is not there? Or it's a responsibility thing. I thought it might of been arrogance, but I hardly think so. I kinda envy people who are able to.
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Would like to hear some advice about it.
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What do you mean there's no attraction? Not even sexual attraction?
If you simply mean you don't fall in love with people, don't worry about it. You probably just haven't met the right person yet. I wouldn't turn it into a bigger problem than it has to be by thinking there's something wrong with you.