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Originally Posted by Burning Down
I've never kissed a woman (and I've only ever kissed one guy so I'm not terribly experienced) but like I said I did go through a period when I was about 18 or 19 where I believed that I was asexual, but now I'm thinking it was a way for me to justify my lack of a love life.
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That's absolutely normal, not everyone is sexually crazied. You just came to enjoy/seek sex at a later stage, perhaps that is because you were naturally already fulfilled in your life.
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Originally Posted by FETCHER.
^this. I'm so confused about it, I like men, but it's like... I'm not sexually attracted to them. But hermoine pointed out that could be due to my being fussy. I honestly don't know.
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I don't think it's that you're fussy, it's just you're on a different wavelength to most men and that's why you aren't sexually attracted to them. You will find somebody, but it will be on your terms. That's what I like about you, you don't take **** from people and don't desperately seek attention from men. Unlike me who loves attention, haha. But I don't actually get with a lot of men, I'm very selective and only go with someone if I actually have feelings for them and it's going to go somewhere.
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Originally Posted by Burning Down
Oh I'm definitely sexually attracted to men and not sexually attracted to women, I came to that realization after almost a year of wondering. It's hard to tell whether fussiness is affecting your judgment. I think stuff like that runs much deeper into the psyche.
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Ditto, and everyone goes through some form of unknown when it comes to sexuality.