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Originally Posted by ThePhanastasio
The aftermath when I'm not there to tell people, "No, it's cool: I'm not upset, so please don't be upset..."
That's what bothers me.
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This is the only thing that bothers me as well, you might be okay with dying, but it's so random that it's almost always a tragedy, and never a peaceful passing.
One of the few funerals I have been to (which I am grateful for), had a few lines which really made an impact on me read at the service, it was in Spanish, but it roughly translates to
"I have passed on, leaving the best memories of joy and happiness,
I have loved and lived my life with all of you,
Please don't be sad, and please don't cry,
For I have moved on to a better place"
The third line was when I broke into tears, it's just hard to accept any way you put it.