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Originally Posted by FETCHER.
Maybe it's a good thing you're single, it'll give you plenty of time to sift through all the arseholes.
I've actually never had a proper boyfriend and don't really know how relationships 'work' shall we say. I'm ridiculously independent and generally can't be bothered with people. Which I think is bad, I think I have commitment issues haha.
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Lmao, I'm the same, and all the other boyfriends I've had have taken it personally and couldn't deal with my independence or the fact I would never "need" them. I don't know why that was such a big deal but a lot of them have held onto it and held it up to mean I didn't love them because I could never need them which confuses the hell out of me, because I don't need anyone but myself but surely choosing to be with someone rather than being codependent is more loving...? I don't know, it always made me feel trapped. A lot of them seem to think I'm actually really a damsel in distress for them to save which is pretty much the exact opposite of the person I am...
Idk how to describe how it was different with him, but it just was. We complemented each other too well to make me feel smothered and he clearly saw me as more than just someone who loved him/he loved which most seem to never truly do. He truly was my other half.