Scarlett O'Hara

I completely agree with Trollheart, but at the same time I understand why your brother is behaving the way he is. Because he's so hooked to weed his judgement is clouded, he's justifying his actions because he feels it's the only thing that is making him happy. Everything else falls secondary to that.

I definitely think it's time he moves out. If he's going to screw up his life, you need to let him do it. I think referring him to a rehab won't work because he needs to want to quit himself. Until he does it will be a waste of time and money.

I am sorry that your mom has cancer but am very pleased to hear she's most likely going to be cancer-free soon. I really hope you can be strong about this situation with your brother. The only way you can fix him is by letting him go.

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