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Originally Posted by Urban Hatmonger ?
She's a woman. she doesn't want a solution, least of all a logical one.
She just wants you to nod occasionally & tell her she's right.
I'd say at least 95% of them are exactly the same as her.
Don't listen to all the sh*t that comes out of her mouth otherwise you'll go insane, just let it go in one ear & straight out the other and only bother paying attention when the conversation pertains to yourself.
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While I agree a lot of women put themselves through an emotional circus and train-wreck, it's usually due to being emotionally afraid or closed. From what I get this is how it goes:
Girl: I'm so closed emotionally so afraid yeah.
Girl: But I'm not happy and want to find a guy who loves me for me.
Girl: I want him to listen and massage my emotional bag.
Girl: But I'm so hurt they suck I don't trust them.
Girl: I don't put myself out there but I'm so lonely.
Girl: They don't see me even though I just said I don't put myself out there so it's frickin' obvious I have nothing to show them.
Girl: But I'm afraid to get hurt.
Me: *tries to give them some advice*
Girl: *makes yet another reason why it won't work*
Girl: *pulls back pulls forward pulls back pulls forward pulls back pulls forward repeat*
*brain damage*