Pride over friendship
Have you ever broke off a friendship over pride?
Recently i had a falling out with a friend, we argued over something and in my opinion she was DEAD WRONG!!
but now we're not talking to each other and I KNOW she won't say she's sorry and i don't want to apologise to her because im ALWAYS the one who has to apologise even when im not the one who should
Cause when you're in this type of situation when both ppl think they're right SOMEONE has to budge to keep the friendship going
but sometimes it's just not worth it, cause if ONE person outta the 2 never recognises he/she is wrong the OTHER ONE has to take all the blame to keep the friendship going
And that creates an unbalanced friendship where one always needs to submit to the other
and IMO both ppl should care equally or else it wasn't a good friendship from the start
So i ask you MB community, What are your thoughts on this? have this ever happened to you?
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