Originally Posted by katsy

I would project my views/feelings onto my musical tastes. When they were attacked, the views/feelings were exacerbated. Psychological bs, I know, but true. Anyway, it wasn't about my or my partner's taste in music, it was about something else entirely and that was a nice(sarcasm) way to deal with it.

This isn't really the direction I think the article was going, but there you have it.