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Originally Posted by Slow Groove
Personally, I think I'm a monster in the sack, it's just my sexual partners I've had always seem to be difficult with the way they have their orgasms. My new girlfriend I've only had sex with her once, and now I'm going to ask her how I should do it. I'm very self-conscious about this, and I'd appreciate if you actually gave me some advice, instead of saying how she should've left me by now.
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My advice... If she doesn't even know herself (which is possible) figure it out by going down. I've never understood how guys can **** that up because all you have to do is pay attention and you can impress anyone. Tell her not to fake it and only show pleasure when she actually feels it. Start simple... only change what you are doing when she stops reacting heavily to it... keep changing how you are doing it until she reacts again. Then stick with that... Repeat. Once nothing new excites her as much.... Introduce a finger and use the ol' 'come hither' motion. Repeat the cycle. By then you should be done... If not, use 2 fingers. If still nothing, at the very least she should be nice and warmed up and even 5 minutes of sex should do her in. If not, you've got a tough lady to please. Just make sure to tell her to tell you what she is enjoying.
So this whole thing will not only impress her with your oral skills, but it should tell you all the spots she likes. From there, practice how to hit those spots with your member and you are good to go.