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Old 07-08-2013, 04:10 AM   #76 (permalink)
Cuthbert
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Originally Posted by misspoptart View Post
It wasn't until he refused to use a condom that I was like "no, I don't want this anymore." And he was like, "oh, come on...just a little!" and I was like, "no, seriously." But he did it anyway. I just sort of sighed and let it go, because I understood in that moment that I let things get out of hand, and I shouldn't have gone home with him.

To this day, I still believe he is a nice guy (now married with a kid) and was just a bit too drunk to realize there was no consent. I forgave him, and I actually feel bad that I put us in that situation but being a young, drunk, slutty girl. I wouldn't blame him, in this situation.
But if you said no, then he just carried on anyway, surely he knows that you didn't consent?

I've been in v. similar situations myself, pissed as a fart and trying to fuck a girl and as soon as they've said no, I stopped.

Sounds like a prick who couldn't take no for an answer tbh.
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