Oh, that is great news Kate! Congrats!
I both love and hate weddings, generally. I'm a bit of an old soft bastard and probably, in many ways, more of a romantic than a lot of people would imagine me to be. I'm also quite a miserable bastard in many other ways though.
Basically I think I can see myself being fully involved, patient and invested if and when its my own wedding, but as much as I do like to see people happy, especially those around me, I also really hate the having to dress up and forced socialising and excitement I feel is required of me at other peoples weddings. I'm obviously not saying I wouldn't be happy at their wedding, or that socialising is an issue for me, but I do feel pressured into appearing about a hundred times happier than I actually am at all times, all day long.
I will undoubtedly reach a point during the day or night where I will find myself sitting thinking "Ok so you got married, yay, now can I go home yet?"
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