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Originally Posted by djchameleon
Doesn't anyone communicate during sex anymore? Geez. If I don't like something that's being done in the midst of the act. I speak up about it pronto. If the girl that I'm with doesn't like something I'm doing she speaks up about it right in the moment so that she can get full pleasure out of the experience.
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Originally Posted by FETCHER.
I'm just an average chick but whenever a guy does something I don't like I immediately tell him because it's extremely uncomfortable and off putting. Do chicks normally just grit their teeth and bear it or something?
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Putting aside the fact that sometimes you don't want to blurt out something in the middle of sex at the risk of offending someone or killing the mood, I think if it's something that is just a minor irritation it can probably wait, but if it's something that is uncomfortable or off-putting I would tell them straight away. After being in a relationship for 5+ years you realise that there is a time and a place for serious "couple" talks which is different from just telling a casual sexual partner that you don't like something. Having a serious discussion about your seemingly incompatible sex life as a couple is a little bit different to saying "I don't like that" and something that you probably don't wanna initiate in the middle of sex...