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Originally Posted by Rezdaddy Longlegs
1. I never noticed any stigma. My friends and most males I know talk about their porn viewing and or masturbation habits pretty openly. At least when you are not a teen.
2. But what people fail to realize is that for a man to do so IS quite a feat and something he has accomplished in a (possibly twisted) way. Even a below average woman could fine a line of dudes to bang her every night...I have seen it in many of my workplaces. All she has to say is yes, while the man has to essentially convince each woman of the idea. Not only that but the man wont be left with a human growing inside. Is this fair...**** no but it is the wayit is.
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1. i was thinkin more along the lines of: young women, not very sexually active, masturbating at home instead of screwin guys. VS men not gettin with girls, sittin at home beatin off. one is deemed a lot more pathetic than the other would u agree. theres commercials on tv reglarly for trojan vibrators, how pathetic do ppl consider guys with fleshlights vs girls with toys??? point being replacin sex with masturbation is more acceptable for chicks
2 i agree with u. im tryin to explain to ninetales why women have that leverage. part of that is cause women dont have a reason to seek out sex beyond physical pleasure as much as men. they gain no social status from it, in fact theirs sometimes decreases (slut vs pimp argument)