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Originally Posted by WhateverDude
It's fine to say how you see something. It's also fine to point out someone's ignorance in hopes that they'll come around and see things the way they really are.
No one knows for sure but the man who solicited her may have been convicted for being a sexual offender. He might've been a rapist. Sure, she got out okay and is fine now but just the possibility of something like that is enough to warrant the reactions here. It's not something you just shrug off and say "Oh well, at least she was molested LOL!" about.
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the bolded part is what i did. i think theres a natural reaction to get overly offended/outraged/up in arms about certain things because its just expected. i reject those feelins and just look at what things really are instead of throwin down a bunch of loaded words like 'abuse' (lmao). a girl was walkin home from school, some guy had his cock out.... ok, well is anyone hurt? no... ok, well why would anyone think its a big deal then?
maybe he is a rapist, who knows. i think most rapes occur with ppl you know and this guy was a stranger. so should i be wary of all the ppl i know too?? i realize he gives reason to belive hes unstable and more likely of a sex crime given hes naked lol but i feel like your lookin at it as if its a fluid situation happenin right now. we have the benefit of hindsight here, nothin happened, and we know that
maybe nobody does actualyl think its a big deal but it seemed that way to me. doesnt mean its appropriate but it obviously wasnt a serious thing either