but honestly, people stress too much about their performance in bed, and seriously, isn't it more about the connection you have with the person you're having sex with? Isn't it more about appreciating their body for the true work of beauty it is, or being grateful for them as a person and the fact that they care to bare themselves to you only?

maybe I'm just one of those crazy romantic types but my favorite thing is pulling my fingers through his hair, touching his face, tracing my hands on the curves of his figure, like damn, what a beauty.

if you truly appreciate them as a human being, you're most concerned with whether they feel your love, not just your ability to fuck them. Anyone can fuck, but nothing comes close to being in love and being able to convey your gratitude and natural admiration of the one you love.