Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

Tis no problem.. Confidence is something so many people are envious of, but its not like its a personal choice really. So, they probably do..

And about the problem thing... It might not be that they're less emotionally developed than you, its just that different things affect different people in all kinds of ways. Just accept their problems , they could be quite upset about something that wouldn't bother you..