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Originally Posted by Trollheart
If your friends only want you when you're a "party animal" or part of the gang then they're no friends at all. As you correctly say, friends are supposed to be there for you in the bad times as well as the good. You should in no way feel under stress to act as they want you to. They're entirely selfish, if they realise they're doing this and still do it. Have you tried talking to any of them, maybe the closer ones, about it? Maybe they just don't realise you're down, particularly if you're putting on a false face all the time.
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Well, I have. But they got confused and started talking about something else or they just went away. They told me it is annoying if I'm complaining or even saying that I'm feeling blue or whatever. It seems like they can't handle these things at all.
But it is the most awkward feeling ever if you think someone is your good friend and then you trust him very much and then he just went away when you're trying to talk with him...
Also that false face thing is just because, well, how can you really show your feelings when you are supposed to just have fun? I mean, probably anyone else isn't showing the way they feel anyway. Also if they do not like you when you're not feeling good, if you wanna have 'friends' at all, you should not show the way you feel. I dunno if I really even want to be with them, but on the other hand being alone all the time is not good for me, either.
And Butthead. Do you think someone chooses to be depresses/sad/emotional whatever you name it? Or do you think it is better just drink and hang around and pretend to be happy even if you're really down. It is a cruel world you're living in.