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Originally Posted by Mojo
One lad I used to work with, didn't see him for a few months when I left, during which time he split up with his girlfriend. He got back in touch, we grabbed a few pints on occasion, I helped him with things on about three different occasions, which included helping him to move house, then he met someone else and ignored me whenever I tried to make contact with him again.
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Lots of people do this with relationships. I understand that when meeting someone new it is exciting and you want to be around them all the time but it is unhealthy to stop your entire life for them. Those are the kind of people who when single are a miserable mess. The same people are constantly getting in and out of relationships because if you are not happy with yourself what makes you think some other person is going to change that....
Point being if you are not happy single you will not be happy with someone long term. I may only be 23 but I have watched people I know go through this time and time again and it holds true. Iv been single 90% of my adult life and have grown quite comfortable with that, so now that im in a relationship it is like an added bonus not the end all be all.