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**Exo** · 02-11-2014, 08:38 AM

I don't know what to do anymore.

My brother has destroyed my relationship with him. Destroyed.

I woke up today and checked my bank account to see that it has overdrawn. I knew my spending money was down a bit but the overdrawing was surprising. I check my transactions to see what happened and I notice something. Three checks have been cashed in the last three days from my account totaling $345. I didn't cash any checks. PNC has this wonderful feature where they can show you an image of the checks as they were signed and who they were signed for. I see my brothers name on it.

I wake him up and show him what he did and all he has to say is "Oh...****." like I just showed him a bad report card.

I don't know what to do. I have no answer. I can't even tell my parents. My dad has severe depression. This will destroy him. I can't tell my mom. She has enough sh*t to deal with my grandmother's court case and all.

The worst part is that I've been working so much for this money to move out that I've been a grumpy person around my house, usually taking things out on my brother because of all the resentment I have for him. I went to therapy yesterday and talked all about how wrong I am for harboring these ill feelings for my brother. I actually convinced myself that me treating him like that was wrong and that he isn't going to grow as a person if I keep shoving him back down.

F*ck him.

This is the last time he steals from me without me calling the cops. I should be on the phone right now. I really should. The only reason I'm not is because of my parents. This would destroy them and I love them more than I love my brother. I told him he's going to pay me back and if I don't see money in two weeks that I'm telling my parents.

Oh, I didn't even tell you people why he stole the money. To pay back his drug dealers that he's owed $500 to since last year.

I need to get out of my house. I have too. I'm looking at five apartments today and I'll bet that they look way better than they are considering the world of sh*t I reside in now.

02-11-2014, 08:38 AM	#14271 (permalink)
Exo All day jazz and biscuits Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 7,354	I don't know what to do anymore. My brother has destroyed my relationship with him. Destroyed. I woke up today and checked my bank account to see that it has overdrawn. I knew my spending money was down a bit but the overdrawing was surprising. I check my transactions to see what happened and I notice something. Three checks have been cashed in the last three days from my account totaling $345. I didn't cash any checks. PNC has this wonderful feature where they can show you an image of the checks as they were signed and who they were signed for. I see my brothers name on it. I wake him up and show him what he did and all he has to say is "Oh...***." like I just showed him a bad report card. I don't know what to do. I have no answer. I can't even tell my parents. My dad has severe depression. This will destroy him. I can't tell my mom. She has enough sht to deal with my grandmother's court case and all. The worst part is that I've been working so much for this money to move out that I've been a grumpy person around my house, usually taking things out on my brother because of all the resentment I have for him. I went to therapy yesterday and talked all about how wrong I am for harboring these ill feelings for my brother. I actually convinced myself that me treating him like that was wrong and that he isn't going to grow as a person if I keep shoving him back down. Fck him. This is the last time he steals from me without me calling the cops. I should be on the phone right now. I really should. The only reason I'm not is because of my parents. This would destroy them and I love them more than I love my brother. I told him he's going to pay me back and if I don't see money in two weeks that I'm telling my parents. Oh, I didn't even tell you people why he stole the money. To pay back his drug dealers that he's owed $500 to since last year. I need to get out of my house. I have too. I'm looking at five apartments today and I'll bet that they look way better than they are considering the world of sht I reside in now. __________________ LastFM SUPREME POO BAH MODERATOR EXTRAORDINAIRE