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Originally Posted by Exoskeletal
I don't know what to do anymore.
My brother has destroyed my relationship with him. Destroyed.
I woke up today and checked my bank account to see that it has overdrawn. I knew my spending money was down a bit but the overdrawing was surprising. I check my transactions to see what happened and I notice something. Three checks have been cashed in the last three days from my account totaling $345. I didn't cash any checks. PNC has this wonderful feature where they can show you an image of the checks as they were signed and who they were signed for. I see my brothers name on it.
I wake him up and show him what he did and all he has to say is "Oh...****." like I just showed him a bad report card.
I don't know what to do. I have no answer. I can't even tell my parents. My dad has severe depression. This will destroy him. I can't tell my mom. She has enough sh*t to deal with my grandmother's court case and all.
The worst part is that I've been working so much for this money to move out that I've been a grumpy person around my house, usually taking things out on my brother because of all the resentment I have for him. I went to therapy yesterday and talked all about how wrong I am for harboring these ill feelings for my brother. I actually convinced myself that me treating him like that was wrong and that he isn't going to grow as a person if I keep shoving him back down.
F*ck him.
This is the last time he steals from me without me calling the cops. I should be on the phone right now. I really should. The only reason I'm not is because of my parents. This would destroy them and I love them more than I love my brother. I told him he's going to pay me back and if I don't see money in two weeks that I'm telling my parents.
Oh, I didn't even tell you people why he stole the money. To pay back his drug dealers that he's owed $500 to since last year.
I need to get out of my house. I have too. I'm looking at five apartments today and I'll bet that they look way better than they are considering the world of sh*t I reside in now.
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I'm sorry homie... Allow me to pry for a second, will you... Does he have a porblem? Gambling/drugs/internet porn?
EDIT: Oh wait... sorry I just saw that.... How bad is this problem I am assuming he has? Because 500 is a nice chunk of change to owe someone...