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Originally Posted by Black Francis
Our relationship is not that black & white (Although she is black and im white)
When we broke up we were in this same situation but in reverse, i met a girl and she was single and she felt like i do now, unsure and worried i would forget her.
And when she got a BF i was happy for her but even though she got one she constantly calls me to tells me she misses me.
She even broke it down dude, she told me she is with him because he is good to her but she doesn't feel that strong connection she has with me.
And i feel the same, i haven't met a girl im that connected with
We keep meeting new ppl but we keep coming back to each other.
She even went out of state to break this connection but we never stopped talking on the phone, and even when we didn't talk for a year when we talked again the connection was still there.
I fear losing that, but at the same time i don't want a relationship with her.
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That sounds pretty confusing. Looking at it as an outsider, it seems like she needs to be honest with the guy she is with now and move on to somebody else. Nobody should be in a relationship where they feel no connection. And I will never agree with someone whos involved in a relationship who strays, thats just ****ed up in every way. I believe that will come back to her tenfold, its just the way the universe works.