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Originally Posted by Carpe Mortem
Small changes are necessary to make relationships work, platonic or romantic. It's really about picking your battles.
People who let themselves be changed too much end up resentful or just plain unhappy. And people who refuse to change for anyone end up lonely because nobody's ****in perfect.
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Picking your battles, exactly! I try to tell my boyfriend all the time that sometimes you just have to let things go. Arguing and debating come naturally to him so he clings to an argument thinking that if he just repeats his point by point analysis over and over I'll eventually succumb to his superior logic. The concept of agreeing to disagree is completely foreign to him and it frequently drives me crazy.