I've never been in a band, but I know there are situations in life that could be close to what it's like (sort of like presenting with a group for history class or something). I imagine it's got a lot to do with the vision not being clear within the group as a whole. One member could want something, but another wants something different. And instead of coming to an agreement, there's just this awkward "we'll just do it this way" attitude and it seems to always lead to the downfall. Another part of it is some people just dont know how to have fun and chill with friends without expecting something big to happen. There's been so much put into people's heads that lead them to believe that anybody can be big in one night, and that makes them forget that it needs to take time and patience. I don't know, just my thought.
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