Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

It's not unfair, you should never do something that you are not comfortable doing, and your partner should understand that. She shouldn't feel obligated to let you stick it in her rear either.

I wouldn't be sexually satisfied at all if I knew my partner did something she hated just to please me. I want her to be enjoying herself while giving. It's nice to think a partner would be willing to do something they dislike to please you, that's enough for me.

Originally Posted by J.R.R. Tolkien

There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.